I really don't get why you don't bite the metaphorical bullet and just start playing there. Sure, you'll have to level again and acquire gear, but in the long run you'd probably have a much better experience than you do here. 99% people here don't want the grind of vanilla PSO, hence why we play here, among other things. You seem a lot more vanilla-minded, so switching to Ephinea in the long run for you would be way more beneficial for your enjoyment. It'd be a lot better than staying and Ultima and trying to get things to happen that probably just won't.
FYI, I have no problem with you, so don't feign this "you probably want me gone" thing, I'm just curious why you continue to stay even though you don't seem to enjoy most of what Ultima has to offer. I even have a mag and some other somewhat okay gear you could have on that server, might as well go to someone that would get use from it.