got that same feeling, to many ego hunters. and as soon as you join a game its. 'This is mine if it drops' . kinda like 'oh hi to you too..'
No games ultimate as you said. i make a game, no one joins for ages.
I got what i kinda want so far for classes i play.
then i have had a few games where absolutely nothing was said the entire run, then everyone disperses after it..
Solo run is boring as Sh*t ...and hunting stuff , i have literally not found anything 'that' rare that anyone wants. accept gallitine which i gave away cause the fella asked for it.