Mimi

We all suffer and deal with pain, whether we learn from it, grow from it or even overcome it altogether.  Whatever does not kill us, only makes us stronger.  Without pain, we would never learn when to stop, to guard ourselves, to learn to protect ourselves or to be wary of what brings pain to others.  No one wants pain or to suffer, but it is an important fact of life we all must learn to deal with and understand.

Bottom line, there also is only one just judge in this earth...  None of us mere mortals are HIM and one day, He will judge us all righteously.